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Family Time Bike Ride

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IMG_1706We love family bike rides!  Jordan and I have been cycling since before I got pregnant with our first daughter — a long time ago — and we have longed for the day when our girls could really join us.  Two summers ago our youngest daughter graduated to her first road bike (it was still too big for her even though it was mini!) and since then we have had some great rides.  We’ve cycled from the outskirts of Denver into downtown, from Frisco to Breckenridge, around the foothills of Mt. Ventoux, and one epic ride through Burgundy; not to mention local beach and Angeles National Forest trails.  It has been such a joy watching the girls learn to love cycling as much as Jordan and me, so we’ve set a goal. This August we are going to do our first organized ride as a family, the Central Coast Classique.  It’s 64 miles long.  We need to train.  A lot.

This past Saturday we tried a new-to-us trail, the Ventura River Trail from Ventura to Ojai.  We had a blast!  The weather was perfect, not too hot and cool shade with lots of trees lining the trail.  It was a 32-mile round trip out-and-back on what was previously the Ventura to Ojai Railroad.  These old rails-to-trails are really great because the average climb is never more than one to two percent.  The best part of this trail is the out is the uphill and the back is all down hill.  Of course we stopped for an amazing lunch at Ojai Beverage Company, a great little restaurant serving up locally sourced organic and free-range eats, not to mention some ice cold beer.  The trip made for a great family day!

The girls with our friend's son.

The girls with our friend’s son.

Jordan is such a good sport!

Jordan is such a good sport!

Of course Jewels got to come along!  She seemed to love it!

Of course Jewels got to come along! She seemed to love it!

Post-ride nap never hurt anyone!

Post-ride nap never hurt anyone!

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We love family bike rides!  Jordan and I have been cycling since before I got pregnant with our first daughter — a long time ago — and we have longed for the day when our girls could really join us.  Two summers ago our youngest daughter graduated to her first road bike (it was still […]

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Prayer for the Week Jan 19 – Speak Life

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Coming of Age

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The end of the matter; all has been heard. Fear God, and keep his commandments; for that is the whole duty of everyone. Ecclesiastes 12:13

Today we are having a coming of age celebration for our oldest son.  We are calling it a Bar Mitzvah in the truest sense of what that implies, both historically and Biblically.  It’s been sort of distorted these days, being almost synonymous with “big fancy party.”  We are having a dinner in our home, with a guest list built by our son–close family members, friends and mentors.  We will reflect on his 13 years, challenge him to walk in true manhood–integrity, mercy, faith, humility, servant-hood.  Guests will each speak a blessing over him, give him prophetic gifts, and affirm the man he is becoming.

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Coming of Age

The end of the matter; all has been heard. Fear God, and keep his commandments; for that is the whole duty of everyone. Ecclesiastes 12:13 Today we are having a coming of age celebration for our oldest son.  We are calling it a Bar Mitzvah in the truest sense of what that implies, both historically and Biblically.  It’s been sort of […]

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Feminine Joy

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Feminine Joy[This is a private event. For information for hosting a workshop or retreat please contact us via email theprovisionroom@gmail.com]

What does it mean to be a woman? How does our physical body reveal the divine reality of God’s nature and our own uniqueness and dignity?

This beautiful one-day retreat explores those deeper questions as well as gives practical ways to support our bodies and souls in various stages of feminine development. (This includes herbs, nutrition, relaxation techniques and healing.)  We believe that being a woman is amazingly joyful!  It is something we should celebrate!!!

Feminine Joy

  [This is a private event. For information for hosting a workshop or retreat please contact us via email theprovisionroom@gmail.com] What does it mean to be a woman? How does our physical body reveal the divine reality of God’s nature and our own uniqueness and dignity? This beautiful one-day retreat explores those deeper questions as […]

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Finding Vocation

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While praying for our children’s vocations, let’s not forget to find our own. God has called us to something and being faithful to that call is where we meet the gladness God intends for us.

“It comes from the Latin vocare, to call, and means the work a man is called to by God.  There are all different kinds of voices calling you to all different kinds of work, and the problem is to find out which is the voice of God rather than of Society, say, or the Super-ego, or Self-interest. By and large a good rule for finding out is this. The kind of work God usually calls you to is the kind of work (a) that you need most to do and (b) that the world most needs to have done. If you really get a kick out of your work, you’ve presumably met requirement (a), but if your work is writing TV deodorant commercials, the chances are you’ve missed requirement (b). On the other hand, if your work is being a doctor in a leper colony, you have probably met requirement (b), but if most of the time you’re bored and depressed by it, the chances are you have not only bypassed (a) but probably aren’t helping your patients much either.

 

Neither the hair shirt nor the soft birth will do. The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet.”

 

(Frederick Buechner, Wishful Thinking, A Seeker’s ABC)

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vocation

While praying for our children’s vocations, let’s not forget to find our own. God has called us to something and being faithful to that call is where we meet the gladness God intends for us. “It comes from the Latin vocare, to call, and means the work a man is called to by God.  There […]

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Required Reading (A short list of books that our children will read before we release them on the world)

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[We’ve been writing and sharing a lot lately about raising our children into adulthood.  This post is part of that series. You can find all those posts here: Young Adults. This post may contain Amazon affiliate links. The Provision Room is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to amazon.com.]

What you read, especially what you read when you are young, is one of the most formative and trans-formative forces in life.  We still remember certain books we read when we were trying to find our way in the world–how we felt when we read those words and how those words changed us.  We are both big readers, always in the middle of at least a half-dozen books at any given time.  And we talk about what we read and we debate with people what we read and sometimes fight with what we read. Often we fall asleep with our noses in books.  There have been times we have gotten so upset with what we’ve read that we’ve thrown a book across a room or in the trash. (It happens. It’s not pretty.)  Sometimes we love a book so much we anthropomorphize it, we dream about it, we buy a dozen copies and hand them out like Gospel tracts.

Required Reading

Although we both read very widely, there are only a few books, that are on our must-read list.  Before we send our young adults out into the world to turn it upside down (or right-side up, as it were) here is what they must have read:

BIOGRAPHICAL

This short book is written by the former president of Columbia International University about the decisions and journey he made while caring for his wife with Alzheimer’s disease.  This book is the definition of love and commitment.  All our children will read this (at least once, perhaps more) before they begin even thinking about romantic attachments.

The love story of Jim and Elisabeth Elliot, how they pursued God’s best and put God and one another over their own passions. Their love story was actually brief, for Jim was martyred shortly after they got married.  But their love story and passion is still inspiring young people today.  Daja’s mom would give a copy of this book to every potential suitor or “special friend” of her children when they were teenagers and young adults.  It seemed to work.

True stories of suffering for Christ. We want our children to have that kind of resolve to serve God and advance His Kingdom, no matter what!  After imprisonment and torture, the Wurmbrands went on to found Voice of the Martyrs.

FICTION

We love this because it reinforces the concepts that education is a way of life and not something that is limited to school hours or school buildings.  Also drives home the point that those who take responsibility for their own education and advancement are the most successful. When you are motivated to learn, you find a way.

Integrity, courage, perseverance.  The kind of story you want your young people reading.

This is a play based on the true story of St. Thomas More.  Challenging and heart wrenching, this book (and the movie made from it) puts the idea of conviction and integrity to the test.  How far are you willing t0 carry what you believe? Do you have convictions or just preferences?

THEOLOGICAL

What do you believe? Why do you believe it? And how can you faithfully live that out.

Right up there with Mere Christianity! This book really gets down to bare bones–what does it mean to have “right belief”?  How can faith and reason walk together? Read. Ponder. Repeat.

This is by far the best book we have ever read about communication, boundaries and maintaining connection in relationship.  We have already read it as a family and individually.  But it will be on regular rotation until our children leave our homes.  This book will give anyone a really solid foundation for successful relationships–whether romantic, business, extended family, etc.

People either love or hate this book.  Doesn’t seem to be much middle ground.  Daja has read this book more times than she can count and has probably given away more copies than that!  The section on understanding men is the best we’ve read in any marriage book anywhere.

Just as we want our daughters to understand men, we want our sons to understand women.  We want them to leave our homes equipped with the skills to lovingly lead their families, exercise self-control, and courageously stand up for others.

This little book should be read by women and men everywhere.  How much better life would be if we understood a woman’s dignity and vocation!

This is a gem. A must read for every Christian. Learn to live in God’s presence continually, even in the middle of a busy chaotic world.

Homemaking is for everyone.  This lovely book encourages you to make your life a work of art, whether you live in a hut in Africa or in a flat in New York or a farmhouse in Kansas.

SHOCKING BUT TRUE

We all know that talking about sexuality with our children can be difficult, but by no means can we ignore that when we launch our children into the world, they are going to be faced with the harsh reality of the modern day hook-up culture.  A culture where all sorts of consensual sexual activity is going on without any thought of being in relationship.  Now we hope and pray to send our children out into the world ready to stand up against this type of living having filled them with the teachings of the church and the bible, but there’s nothing like a good stiff kick-in-the-pants reality check and this is what this book provides.

So there you have it! Our short but important list of books that we think everyone should read.  Have we left out your favorite? What’s on your list required reading?

 


Required Reading

[We’ve been writing and sharing a lot lately about raising our children into adulthood.  This post is part of that series. You can find all those posts here: Young Adults. This post may contain Amazon affiliate links. The Provision Room is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide […]

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Prayer for week of August 3 — Vocation Awareness Week

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This week is National Vocation Awareness Week.  We are continuing to pray for the calling of God on our children’s lives.  Join us?  Let’s keep the young people in this country covered in prayer and ask the Lord to call them into His service. “Pray you therefore the Lord of the harvest, that he will send forth laborers into his harvest. Matthew 9:38Vocations

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Vocations

This week is National Vocation Awareness Week.  We are continuing to pray for the calling of God on our children’s lives.  Join us?  Let’s keep the young people in this country covered in prayer and ask the Lord to call them into His service. “Pray you therefore the Lord of the harvest, that he will […]

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The Importance of Role Models

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Role Models

Imitate me, just as I also imitate Christ. I Corinthians 11:1

Role models are important–not only in the lives of children, but in the lives of adults.  We all need that person we can point to and say, “That is the example I want to follow.”  Often however, we don’t have role models–we have celebrities and idols.  We look at someone and want what they have and not to be who they are.  We want the wealth or the fame or the hit selling album or the hot body or the groupies or the show on the Food Network.  But those people don’t always have character we want to emulate. Read More

Role Models

Imitate me, just as I also imitate Christ. I Corinthians 11:1 Role models are important–not only in the lives of children, but in the lives of adults.  We all need that person we can point to and say, “That is the example I want to follow.”  Often however, we don’t have role models–we have celebrities […]

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Increasing Responsibilities

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[We’ve been writing and sharing a lot lately about raising our children into adulthood.  This post is part of that series. You can find all those posts here: Young Adults.]

Have you noticed the lengthening of childhood years?  The seemingly acceptable putting off of responsibilities?  Here in the United States children can stay on their parent’s health insurance until they are 26!  This is no joke!  What happened to being an adult at 18? Read More

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[We’ve been writing and sharing a lot lately about raising our children into adulthood.  This post is part of that series. You can find all those posts here: Young Adults.] Have you noticed the lengthening of childhood years?  The seemingly acceptable putting off of responsibilities?  Here in the United States children can stay on their […]

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What’s That Smell? (Dealing with body odor, naturally)

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[We’ve been writing and sharing a lot lately about raising our children into adulthood.  This post is part of that series. You can find all those posts here: Young Adults.]

I have been away from home for about a month.  And our diet has been….well, let’s just say, less than stellar.  No, we didn’t eat a bunch of Micky-D, but we did eat our fair share of junk.  We’ve just driven from Los Angeles to Maine, spent over two weeks working like mad, then drove back to Los Angeles.  So….there have been some chips, cookies, a few sodas, and other such things I’d rather not ‘fess up to.  To add insult to injury, we also haven’t been drinking our kombucha and kefir, eating our fermented veg or organ meats.  Let’s just sum it up to say it hasn’t been clean eating and there have been some nutritional deficiencies.

Guess where all this is leading? Body Odor. (Keepin’ it real, folks.  Just keepin’ it real.)

Body Odor

In our culture we have come to expect body odor as a non-negotiable.  We assume that every young person who hits puberty must start using antiperspirant and their parents better buy stock in the company, because they’ll be using a lot.  They must, as a matter of course, start showering more often, use cologne and generally do everything possible suppress that nasty-mustiness. Read More

Body Odor

[We’ve been writing and sharing a lot lately about raising our children into adulthood.  This post is part of that series. You can find all those posts here: Young Adults.] I have been away from home for about a month.  And our diet has been….well, let’s just say, less than stellar.  No, we didn’t eat […]